How To Find The Right Guy For You And Keep Him
I don’t know if you’ve read my other posts or not about how to find the right guy for you and how to find a husband fast, if you didn’t I will recommend doing so.
Anyhow, today I’m going to talk about the law of attraction and how you can use the principles there to find the right guy for you quickly.
The law of attraction has gotten a lot of hype about how powerful it is and how you can attract anything, even a million dollars just by thinking. They will have you believe that by visualizing something, you can wish it into existence.
I’m much more practical than that.
While I don’t think you can imagine anything into your life, I do think that the human mind is a powerful tool that you have at your disposal. I also think that by getting your head and emotions set up right, you can easily find the right guy for you.
I once bought a yellow Toyota. I thought it was the coolest car and I had never seen one like it. Until I bought it! Suddenly, yellow Toyota cars were everywhere. I can’t believe that I never saw them before! This little story proves that we often can’t see what is right in front of our eyes. That is why I recommend doing the criteria process to determine what it is that you really are looking for in a man, or woman for that matter. When you know what you want, your mind starts to focus and filter on that. In fact, you may already know the perfect guy for you, he may be right in front of you.
I also believe that like attracts like. I believe that there are matching laws in the universe. And so I think that our emotions also play a huge part of what we get in life. If you are depressed, you are more likely to have more depressing things happen. Happy people, on the other hand, attract more happiness.
Applying this principle to find the right guy for you, it’s important to examine your emotional status? Are you desperate? You certainly can’t attract good things into your life with a sense of desperation about you! Are you sad? Mr. Perfect probably didn’t put sad on HIS criteria list!
Work on creating in yourself qualities and emotions that your guy is looking for. After all, if you are happy with you, chances are he will be, too (TW Jackson gives some great examples about this situation in his Girl Gets Ring system). People are naturally attracted to happy people, so you’ll be widening out your pool of potential men at the same time!
In summary, use a criteria list to help you focus on what you want. Work on developing qualities that your man is looking for. Be happy, positive and content and you’ll find the right guy for you in no time!