Save Your Marriage
I’m sorry that you have to read about such a difficult subject. Today’s stresses can take a heavy toll on relationships, and nearly all marriages that make it, sadly have asked themselves this question once or twice along the way.
With no fluff, let’s get right down to the best ways to save your marriage.
The truth is, you probably already know the best ways to save your marriage. The question really becomes this: How much effort are you willing to put into your relationship?
Right now, thing about three things that you could do, or stop doing that would make an impact on your relationship and make your spouse happier.
Perhaps you could stop going out on Friday’s with your friends and go out with your spouse instead. Maybe you could make a date night once a week.
Relationships take effort and the honest truth is that sometimes we are selfish and we don’t WANT to do what we know we should. The best ways to save your marriage is already in your head, you just need to want to act on it.
There is a phenomenon I’d like to talk to you about. I like to call it the inner voice phenominum.This inner voice knows what we should do, but often we don’t obey it.
It starts out a bit like this, the baby cries in the middle of the night. You look at your spouse sleeping. Your inner voice tells you to get up and take care of the baby and let your mate sleep. It would be an act of love to obey that voice. However, when you don’t obey the inner voice, when you contradict your instincts, something strange happens.
You have to justify disobeying the inner prodding.
We often do this by an inner dialog of criticism of our mate. It goes like this, “I need my rest. She wouldn’t do it for me! She doesn’t even do anything during the day. Let her get up!”
These inner criticism tear down the relationship.
These inner prodding’s occur on a daily basis. We’ll either let them move us, or we’ll tear at our mate to justify ourselves not obeying.
One of the best ways to save your marriage is to start listening to yourself and treat your spouse right.
It not really rocket science. Treat them the way that they want to be treated.
I once was counseling a couple. The wife told me “I know what he wants, I just don’t feel like doing it.” There in lies the real reason that so many relationships fail. Often we feel like we are willing to treat our mate well if they…
This is taking a victim’s stance. This leaves your happiness in the hands of another person. Take control of your relationship and YOU do the right thing FIRST. You’ll be amazed by how quickly this can turn things around.
Why are you searching for the best ways to save your marriage? Are you dedicated to saving your relationship?
If you are, by doing this one thing, you’ll improve your marriage drastically.
I really hope that at least some of tips here were useful for you. You can also take a look at this video for more tips and advice that may help you.
I wish you the best and hope that you will have a happy and healthy marriage life very soon…