Find A Husband
How to find a husband fast? Are you serious? I mean how fast are we talking here? A year? Six months? LESS?! Well, I guess if we are in a hurry to find a man, and then turn him into a husband fast, we’d better get right down to it!
First of all, do you know what kind of husband you want? Are you particular about age, race, financial situation, etc? The first step is to get clarity on what yo want.
So make a list.
Make a list of qualities and attributes that you want you man to have. Feel free at this point to make the list long.
You might think that this is a waste of time, but trust me, I’ve taught dozens and dozens of women, how to find a husband fast, it works, I promise!
After you have your list, I want you to put it in order from most important to least important.
Now, starting at the bottom of this list, ask yourself this simple question, if you had everything on this list EXCEPT this last quality, could you live with it? The chances are, while it would be nice to have everything, you could probably live without this last item. OK. Now move up to the second to the last quality and repeat the question. The objective here is to keep moving up on your list until you come to the point that the answer is NO, you HAVE to have this quality. You need to know where you DRAW THE LINE.
After you finish this process, most people have around 8 things that they must have in a mate, some people only have 2 or 3 things that matter to them. Most people are very surprised to find out that what they thought really mattered, isn’t on the list of top qualities at all.
This exercise is very powerful because most of the time we don’t find a mate because we don’t know what we are looking for. You may have turned down someone because they didn’t have a lesser quality, and now you know that you can live without that!
With your criteria list now prepared, how to find a husband fast will actually become pretty easy, unless of course, your list has 50 items on it! I once coached a woman in her 40’s on how to find a husband fast. She made out her criteria list and put it in order of most important to least important. No kidding, she had 84 things that she wanted in a husband! She couldn’t draw the line either. She was looking for a man with all 84 items on the list. I told her I’d let her know when the computer clone man was finished.
If you have a deadline time frame in mind, that’s great! In fact, the human mind is an amazing thing, once it knows what it wants and has a time frame; you laser in on it and can start attracting that perfect person to you!
Be sure to get into contact with as many men as possible in order to find the right man as fast as you can. Don’t be afraid to be proactive, go ahead and ask someone at Barnes and Noble to have coffee with you!
Below is also funny video on how to find a husband fast, check it out if you have time…
See you in the next post!